She even found out about things before I did, so they were talking on the phone. Roll on maybe nearly a year (together about 2 and half years at this stage) and we were both looking at pictures on his laptop, I was just clicking in different folders and he was telling me where certain pictures were taken. So, a few weeks later I needed my pictures off his laptop and I noticed the folder with their pictures in it. He doesn’t want to delete the photos because he still loves her?
It’s just that they no longer love each other in a romantic way.
Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer.
Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control”.
But note that it doesn’t say it will be easy or that you won’t be hurt. Oh this is probably one of the most misused verses in the Bible.
It says that others have been tempted by the same stuff that is tempting you, and that God will give you a way to deal with it. I’m sure you would LOVE it if your spouse or “soon-to-be-ex” was honest with you and openly let you into their life and heart. It DOES NOT mean that you can do whatever you want and God with give you the strength to do it.